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Think about the conversations you’ve enjoyed most in your life, the ones you remember. They were almost certainly shaped by the mood and atmosphere that greeted you before a single word was spoken. You felt comfortable, welcomed and at ease.
That same principle applies to presenting.
At Mindful Presenter, We Lead by Example
Our workshops aren’t just training sessions; they’re presentations in their own right. We believe the best way to teach presentation skills is to model them. So, we set the tone long before our delegates walk into the room.
Here’s how we do it:
– We send an online skills profile so we can understand their background, strengths, challenges, and aspirations.
– Then we call them before the workshop to introduce ourselves, answer questions, and build rapport.
– We follow up with an email outlining what to expect and inviting further conversation.
By the time we meet, we already feel connected. They know we’re friendly, supportive, and genuinely invested in their success. The tone is set before we even shake hands.
Not every presenter has the luxury of knowing their audience in advance, but there is still a great deal you can do.
Decide the Mood You Want to Create
Before you build your slides, before you rehearse your opening, ask yourself:
How do I want my audience to feel?
Curious?
Inspired?
Excited?
Reassured?
Challenged?
Motivated?
Once you know the mood, you can shape every element of your presentation around it.
Set the Tone Before You Meet
– Send a warm, personal invitation or welcome message.
– Make the subject line clear and compelling.
– Explain what they can expect and what they will gain.
– Invite questions before the session.
Prepare your pre-presentation communication with the same care you give the presentation itself.
Shape the Room to Match the Mood
Whether you’re speaking for 20 minutes or two hours, the environment matters.
Look at:
Lighting
Seating layout
Temperature
Colour
Props
Audio/visual setup
If you can, offer refreshments. Small touches make people feel welcome and relaxed.
Dress to Connect, Not Impress
People will form an impression of you before you speak. That impression contributes to the mood.
At Mindful Presenter, we dress to match our audience. If they’re in suits, we are too. If they’re casual, so are we. The goal is simple: help them feel that we are one of them, not above, not below, just human.
Your Mood Sets Their Mood
From the moment you begin speaking, your tone, body language, expressions, and movement must align with the atmosphere you want to create.
Do you want to be:
Passionate?
Humble?
Serious?
Light‑hearted?
Personal?
Motivational?
Authoritative?
Urgent?
If you don’t choose the mood, your audience will choose it for you.
The Opening Shapes Everything
Your opening sets the emotional temperature of the entire presentation. It determines whether your audience leans in or switches off.
If you want to signal boredom, start with: “Today I’d like to talk about…”
If you want to set a compelling tone, consider opening with:
A question
A story
A quotation
A powerful visual
A surprising statistic
A provocative statement
A personal experience
Humour
Research
A prop
A strong opening takes effort, but it’s worth every second.
Be Real
It’s astonishing how many presenters lose their personality the moment they step up to speak. They become corporate spokespeople, polished, professional, and utterly forgettable.
Your audience wants you to be sincere, open, and human.
Professionalism is important, but not at the cost of authenticity. At Mindful Presenter, our mantra is that ‘connecting is everything’, and connection only happens when people feel something.
The Mindful Presenter is intentional about how they want their audience to feel before, during, and after the presentation, and they deliver with that feeling in mind.
Mood Determines Impact
No matter how strong your message is, it’s the mood you create that determines whether your audience acts on it.
Set the mood early. Shape it deliberately and carry it through every moment of your presentation.
If you need help setting your presentation mood:
– Book yourself onto a powerful public speaking course.
– Invest in some really good one to one public speaking coaching.
– Get yourself some excellent presentation training
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